Marriage Biodata.: What will be included in the marriage biodata.

 

What will be included in the marriage biodata

 

Generally the words 'Biodata' or 'CV' are more related to jobs. But now the importance of bride and groom's biodata is gradually increasing in relation to marriage as well. To get to know each other, the authenticity of biodata information is important not only for marriage but also for a happy marriage later on. 

 

Biodata should be given instead of the CV of the bride or groom in the marriage conversation.

 

First of all, it is good to know the difference between CV (Curriculum Vitae) and Biodata. CV is a brief introduction of a person. Where is his purpose or desire, what kind of career he wants to build, how to contact him, social media address, education, achievements, motivation, any special talent, previous work experience, references etc., almost all of which are job oriented. It is a kind of professional resume.

 

And biodata is a more detailed description of the person, which gives an idea about the person as well as his family and surroundings. In the biodata, the person tries to give details about his identity, profession, education, identity of the rest of the family, various personal information - hobbies, likes and dislikes, philosophy, achievements etc.

​Marriage biodata

The biodata of the bride or bridegroom should be such that it contains the necessary information for making important decisions such as marriage; So that the social, financial etc. status of the person can be easily understood. A person's lifestyle, thoughts, qualifications, social status, etc. can be seen through biodata. Apart from this, if you have an idea about the others in the family, it is also helpful to understand how you are going to relate to the family.

The photo attached with the marriage biodata will be an informal photograph taken formally. Not a selfie, not a serious photo like a passport, which the person will show you (Patra-Patri). The picture that the other party can see together. Remember, this photo is the first impression a new family will make about you, so get it right. Many people, especially brides, go beyond their normal boundaries and put extra sociality into their wedding photos. For example, if you are comfortable in a sleeveless blouse or dress, wear such clothes regularly, then you should add such pictures to your wedding biodata. After the marriage, the sky will not fall on the head of the new family. If a groom writes unnecessarily that he loves to travel, but has not gone anywhere for two years after marriage, that would be cheating. Rather, if you don't like the trip, you can also mention that.

If possible, you can also add a family video clip if you give the marriage biodata through digital medium.

 

Many boys or girls' families are quite strict about following religious rules. But they can explain it beautifully in the biodata. It is important to keep it clear in the picture as well. If one family is ordinary while another is ultra-modern, then the biodata can decide whether the two families will bond like marriage. If something is kept secret or suppressed before marriage, it can come out very badly after marriage. Such incidents poison the relationship at the very beginning of the new life. However, if you present your correct identity in the biodata or photo, it would be beneficial for both parties in the end.

​hinges that must be kept:

Now let's discuss some star-marked things that must be kept in the marriage resume. Personal information of the person must include full name, year of birth, blood group, present and permanent address, educational qualification, district name, height. If in the city, it is rented or own house, also mention that.

Apart from this, if you use social media like phone number, e-mail, Facebook, Instagram, you can give your address in your biodata. This information can usually be mentioned in the resume after initial selection or if reliable at the beginning.

 

Must write the correct year-date in the places of work and study. Mention the branch name along with the name, surname and address of the workplace, so that it is easy to find if the other party wants.

For the rest of the family members, mention the names of parents and brothers and sisters, occupation. If brothers and sisters are married, also mention their partner's details. Many also mention information about grandparents and great-grandparents. It is better to give it. It helps to understand the family situation or make decisions. However, many avoid the topic of education and financial status of family members, especially if they are less educated or less privileged. However, my suggestion is that if after the initial conversation the answer is yes-indicative, then these aspects of the family should also be honestly highlighted in the biodata. If that family all knowingly agrees to the marriage, there will be no change in their behavior after the marriage. In this the bride or groom is mentally prepared to adapt to other families.

    

                         Allured to give these information properly and lack of understanding usually leads to bitterness in the relationship after marriage, separation occurs. If people evaluate these things properly, then it will be easy to build a good relationship.

 

From professional experience, I have seen that nowadays, when a bride or groom likes, the other party does not want to go deeper into the identity, instead they are in a hurry. That is why they decide to get married even if the acquaintance is light, which in many cases may not turn into a long-term relationship. If the marriage biodata is incomplete or unclear, then the foundation of the relationship is structurally light.

 

Marriage for life. Make a marriage decision knowing the details without creating that relationship with little acquaintance, infatuation.